Definition
Broadlyspeaking,self-confidenceisakindofpositivity,andself-confidenceisapositiveattitudeinself-evaluation.Inanarrowsense,self-confidenceissomethingcloselyrelatedtopositivity.Positivewithoutself-confidenceisweak,incomplete,inefficient,andinefficient.Confidenceisself-affirmationandbelieffromtheheart.Self-confidenceisveryimportantininterpersonalcommunication,careerandwork.Onlyifyoubelieveinyourself,otherswillbelieveinyou.
Confidenceistheconvictionofone'sownstrength,theconvictionthatoneselfwillbeabletoaccomplishsomethingandachievethegoalpursued.Tosumupmany"Icando"experiencesisself-confidence.
Misunderstanding
1.Ifyouhaveconfidence,youwillbeabletosucceed:successiscausedbyavarietyoffactors,andmanypeoplethinkthatyouhaveconfidenceItwilldefinitelysucceed,andifyoudon’tworkhard,ofcourseitwillbeacompletefailureintheend.Therefore,self-confidenceisnotanecessaryfactorforsuccess.Therearealsofactorssuchasperseverance,determination,andtherightdirection,butsuccessisnotthemostimportantfactor.
2.Successcanmostinspireaperson'sself-confidence:itisnotsuccessthathasself-confidence,andsuccesscanatmostinspireone'sself-confidence,andself-confidenceisnotaby-productofsuccess.TherearemanyManypeoplehaveexperiencedcountlessfailuresbeforetheysucceed.Canitbesaidthattheyhavenoself-confidence?
3.Themoreconfidentthebetter:Excessiveself-confidenceiscalledconceit,notonlydoesnothelpyoualittlebit,butalsoharmsyourself.
Waystoenhanceself-confidence
1.Practicefacingothers.
2.Grinwithabiggrin
3.Whenstagefright,youmightaswelltellthetruth,Youcancalmdown
4.Ifyouuseanaffirmativetone,youcaneliminateinferioritycomplex
5.Self-confidencecultivateself-confidence
6.DowhatyoucandoThings
Youmusthaveconfidenceinyourcareer
Youmusthaveconfidenceinyourcareer.Onlywithconfidencecanyouhavecourageandstrength.Andperseverance.Withthese,difficultiescanbeovercomeandgoalscanbeachieved.Butself-confidenceisbynomeansconceited,norisitarrogant.Self-confidenceisonlymeaningfulifitisbuiltonthefoundationofrealismandself-improvement.
Peoplewhodonothaveself-confidencewilleasilygiveupanyeffort,showthattheyareuseless,andsometimesdeliberatelydothingsthatgoagainsttheroad,justgivethemselvesatimelyencouragementTogetakindofself-satisfaction,thatis,asenseofself-esteemandasenseofsuccess,canpresentacompletelydifferentnewlook.
FactualArguments
HelenKeller,afamousAmericanfemalewriter,wasdeafandblindduetoillnessatayoungage.Sheisself-confidentandself-improving.Attheageof14,shehasmasteredmultipleforeignlanguagesandisfluentinGerman,French,Roman,andGreekliterature.AdmittedtotheprestigiousHarvardUniversityattheageof20.
ThefamousGermanastronomerKepler.Whenhewas4yearsold,hedevelopedsmallpox,leavingapockmarkedsequelae.Later,hesufferedfromscarletfever.Heburnedhiseyesandbecamehighmyopia.Hesuffersfromillnessallhislife.Buthehasneverlosthisself-confidence,andhehasbeeninpovertyandillnessformorethan20yearswithfearlessfightingspirit.Thethreelawsofplanetarymotionwereestablished,layingthefoundationforNewton'sdiscoveryofuniversalgravitation.Importantworksinclude"MysteryoftheUniverse","SummaryofCopernicus'Astronomy","UniversalHarmony"andsoon.
Theimportanceofself-confidence
1.Self-confidenceisahealthymentalstate
2.Confidenceistheguaranteeofsuccess
3.Confidenceistheguaranteeforenduringsetbacksandovercomingdifficulties
4.Actionisthetruesourceofself-confidence
Theroleofself-confidence
1.Fromaprofessionalpointofview,self-confidenceTheheartcanhelppeoplefullyrealizetheirstrengthsandpotential.
2.Fromahumanperspective,self-confidencecanmakepeoplefeelgoodaboutthemselves.Thiswillreducethechanceofbecomingdomineeringorincompetentatwork.
3.Ithelpstoconfirmtheresponsibilityforone'sownactions,feelingsandthoughts,reducetheblameforothers,andalsoreducethemistakesorinadequacyoftheirownworktojustifyandjustifytheresponsibility.
4.Itcansavetimeandemotionalconsumption,reducethetroubleofoffendingothers,andfreeyourselffromcalculatingtheinterestsofothers.
5.Self-confidenceisparticularlyimportantforthegrowthofchildren.
Disadvantagesoflosingself-confidence
1,notdaretotakerisks
2,destroyingfriendship
3,beingoverwhelmed
ConfidenceQuotes
Therearetoomanypeopletorelyon.Youcanonlyrelyonyourselftosurvive.——Napoleon[Fa]
Confidenceisthefirstsecretofsuccess.——Emerson
Takeadeeplookintoyourownheart,andthenfindthatallthemiraclesareinyou.——Bacon
Anyoneshouldhaveself-esteem,self-confidence,andindependence,orelsetheyshouldbeaslave.——XuTeli